Monday, July 23, 2012

Catching up


Seems like the days get away from me ... I'm a little behind on my posts :)

From July 18, 2012

I had a fantastic week this week. Nothing really out-of the ordinary happened - it was a pretty standard week of missionary week. But, I am beginning to really enjoy being a missionary. It´s a good work I´m involved in.

Transfers are this week, but I am staying put here in Bragado. Same goes for my companion, Elder Correa. We´re looking forward for another opportunity to work and build up the branch here. I am also looking forward to learning more new recipes from my comp.

The work progresses; Andrew & his companion have had some wonderful opportunities, but also experience some disappointments. 

Some good days, good experiences. The other day we decided to go and work in a part of the city that we had never visited. When we arrived and started knocking doors, we found a whole lot of inactive members, with testimonies, waiting to be reactivated. We also found that the people there seem to be very willing to listen. In the whole street that we knocked (about 25 houses), only 2 people told us that they weren´t interested. We could have lots of success there in the future! Stay tuned.

From July 22, 2012

I woke up this morning and thought about each one of you and how much I love you. We are a very blessed family! I imagine Jacob will be at OYA by now (fun!) and Mom and Dad will be visiting Grandma and Krista and the other Utah folks. Have a great visit! Give hugs to everyone for me. 

We had a good week here in Bragado. No baptisms, still, and none really close, but we found some more people to teach and had some good lessons.

There´s a less-active family here. The missionaries have passed by to visit the family every so often, but have never been invited in. Until now, that is! It seems that the parents are once again ready to receive visits from members of the church! They let us in and we got to meet the family and have a lesson. They´re awesome! The kids have a very clean, healthy, wholesome look about them. The oldest son seems like he should be a missionary. We gained the confidence of the family through asking about and talking about their various talents - drawing, dancing, and playing the piano. Now we´ve set up a time every Monday for the kids to come to the chapel, to learn to play the piano (whee!) and play soccer, and afterward to have a lesson.

Last Sunday, we were expecting a family to come to church. The day before we had gone by to have a lesson and specially invite them - they were excited and ready to go! But, as so often happens, Sunday came and they didn´t show up. We tried calling them and even walked to their house to see if we could find out what happened, but no answer - they were still asleep! Well... it happens. Next week. But it seems that the mom is so ashamed that she didn´t come, that she´s been avoiding us all week! We haven´t been able to go back and teach them! Rats! I hope we don´t lose them because of something small like that!

The weather has been surprisingly warm for the past few days. I even went out with short sleeves one afternoon! Kind of weird considering that it´s the middle of winter. But supposedly, the real cold begins in August, when the wind starts. I can´t wait!

Elder Correa has recently started studying English! What fun! Did you know that there are a lot of things about the English language that don´t make any sense? It´s easy for us because it´s the first language we learn, but they tell me that it´s pretty hard to learn English as a second language. I had never thought about it before, but I realized that the way we pronounce words is drastically different from the way we spell them. 

Elder Correa & evening Bible study


We´re having to live a little frugally these last days of the month. Owing to mission-related expenses this transfer for which we haven´t yet been reimbursed, my companion and I have $40 pesos (a little less than $10 US dollars) to get us through to the end of the month, or until the reimbursement comes - whichever happens first. Looks like we´ll be eating lots of pasta! Fortunately, I´ve now learned how to make super-delicious spaghetti, which I can eat for every meal and not complain.

Slurp!
Eggs on the menu
A beautiful day in the beautiful patio

 We finally fixed Elder Correa´s bike last week, and enjoyed being on bikes again for the better part of a week before mine broke. The bikes are becoming quite expensive. Fortunately... we´re getting new ones! Hurrah! The mission has decided to invest in bikes that won´t require repairs quite so frequently. That will be nice! (Maybe I´ll even be able to adjust the seat!) I´m not sure how they´re going to get them down here, but I guess they´ll find a way.


I´ve been thinking recently about my progress as a missionary and as a person since the beginning of my mission, as well as my current challenges and what I need to do to become a better servant of the Lord. As I read this morning through some of my journal entries from earlier in the mission, I remembered how I was then. I can see that I have grown and become a better missionary and a better person.

I've learned that God works miracles, and that there are people prepared to receive the Gospel - when I go out with my best attitude to work with all my strength, the Lord blesses my efforts and I see miracles.

I've learned better how to contact people and present a message, and how to teach according to their level and understanding. I also learned how to deal with change and live and teach with a person completely different from me. My Spanish improved a lot.

I've learned how to plan and manage information better. I've learned patience and having Christlike love for people even when it´s not easy. I've also learned to assert myself more. I've gained confidence and power as a missionary.

I'm learning how to manage time wisely, the value of doing practices, and that the members are vital in missionary work. I've also learned to study better. Recently, I have learned that I need to pay more attention to what my leaders tell me. If I really want the guidance of the Lord, I should study and implement the instructions I receive from His representatives.

I am in the process of overcoming my personal challenges. I´ve gotten a lot better at focusing on what I´m doing and give every activity the attention it needs. I am also managing my time better - using every hour as it is meant to be used. Doing these things, I have felt the Lord´s help and his satisfaction. He´s helping me become more than I am currently. What I really want is to have a vision of what I can/should become. I want to have a goal for myself that I know I can reach if I put in my best effort. That´s what I´ll try to come up with this week.


Well! That´s all for this week, I think! I love you all! I hope you are each enjoying your various stages of life. I´m enjoying mine as a missionary. Have a fantastic week!


Love,
Elder Stockton


Sunday, July 1, 2012

Bragado

Two weeks ago ...

Hello hello! Hope you all had a marvelous week! I haven´t read your emails yet, because we left the pench a little late to do Internet. So I´ll print out your letters and read them tonight, and use the time right now to write and let you know what´s going in... Bragado.

Things are good, in Bragado.
Maybe I mentioned last week a family that we´re working with? The 3 kids are progressing marvelously - some of the best investigators I´ve taught so far. Joana (11) reads everything she can get from us and prays amazing prayers from the heart. Antonella (13) is earnestly seeking for good things and finding that the Gospel makes her happy. Germán (14) is changing the whole direction of his life - just at the point where he was about to drop out of school and be a punk, he´s seeing that instead he can become a man of God. His mom is so happy with the changes she´s seeing in her son. This Sunday it rained all morning - and investigators almost NEVER come in the rain. But these kids walked themselves alone through the rain and cold to come to church. How awesome.


Last week ...

I am finally writing with a decent amount of time, hurrah! I enjoyed reading all your letters. It´s great to hear about what´s going on at home. Also nice to be able to see a little bit of what the yard looks like! Summer at home is my very favorite time/place. It sounds like everyone´s enjoying their summer.



Where to start? We had a zone conference the other day. (Up at 3:00 in the morning to catch a bus to Chivilcoy, all day at the meeting. We got back just in time to do a few street contacts and plan for the next day.) It was pretty fantastic! I am here in Bragado in an important time in ´campo´ history. It is President Carter´s plan to change the way that missionaries work in campo, with a greater focus on working with the few branch members that we have. 

Something I didn´t know is that campo is supposed to be super hard to work in. There haven´t been real convert baptisms in Bragado for over 2 years! But I don´t know, it seems pretty normal to me. The only difference that really affects the work is that we have to work at different times of the day, when the people are in the streets. 




Anyway, we´re about to start with this new way of working, and in a few weeks we should be seeing results! Part of working in this new way is that we´re going to teach classes in Church on Sunday about how to do member missionary work. Should be good!


Elder Correa is teaching me to cook some things! After he made some delicious food for the first couple weeks, I decided I needed to learn and help out a bit. And, in spite of one instance of nearly killing my companion with some highly peppered rice, I have gotten pretty okay at cooking! I can make rice with tasty sauce and chinese soup. Mmmm! Even better than plain, unseasoned rice!


   
My companion and I have recently adopted a new practice called Oreo Night. Every Thursday night after weekly planning, we conference call the district and enjoy oreos (1-2 packages each) and milk (3%). It´s a very good tradition - a fun way to relax after a long day of planning. Under the last mission president, Thursday Oreo Night was actually a mission rule. Seems like a good one to me!

Because our areas are so far away, we have our district meetings via telephone. Singing the opening hymn is a trick! 


Adela (the mostly-deaf old Sister who gives us lunch) had a birthday this week, and invited us over for delicious chocolate milk and really tasty chocolates. And Dulce de Membrillo. We took one of our investigators and headed over, and had a fun time. As a present for Adela, I gave her a picture that I drew for her on P-day last week! She´s a cool lady. She knitted me a pair of blue socks to keep my feet warm at night. Then, thinking that the socks were too small, she knitted me another pair. Heh heh. And they do keep my feet warm! They´re nice to have. She´s cool. 

 

 
















Love you so much! Thanks for your emails, and your love and support. And prayers. Have a fantastic week!


Love, Elder Andrew Stockton